N E V E R let the devil W I N !

I know y'all were probably wondering why I didn't post at my regular time today or even if I was going to. The reason I didn't is because the devil was trying to distract and deter me from inspiring others. He sees I'm doing something that could potentially change the mindset of people that constantly doubt and don't believe in themselves.

The devil came to me today in the form of several males. Although I won't go into detail (because that's what he would want) I will say that he partially succeeded. Yes he stopped me from posting at my regular time, but it's still here... late and all, and that's something he can't control.

I say all of this to say, never let the devil win ! He will try to deter you in many forms, but it's up to you to decide if you will allow him to have power in your life. Never let him believe that he is in control or deterring you from anything in life. Don't allow him to take your happiness, it is your most prized possession and should be treated as so.

This post is dedicated to everyone that had a crappy day and to those that will in the future.Use that negativity as a motivating force to make you do exactly what people are saying you can't do. There is no better revenge than succeeding when others didn't think or believe it was possible. Talk with God daily, and keep striving for your dreams; in the end you are solely responsible for your win or loss. Don't be good be great !

"Let go and let GOD"

5 reasons...

Why I can't Window Shop

5. If I feel it's already mine. If I see something I like and it fits perfect I have to have it ! I don't understand how people can just leave things that are calling their name...I have to answer that call every time ! It's mine and I want it now ! lol

4. I'm impatient. I can't wait for something to go on sale, or come back another time. And you can't expect me to look at something beautiful and not get it. That's just like when your parent's tell you not to do something, you have to do it anyway because they said not to.

3. If it's unique. I pride myself on being an unorthodox specimen so when I see shoes or pieces that are a reflection of my being I cannot allow them to suffer and remain unloved at the store; if it's different and cute, it's going home with me to get the attention it truly deserves lol.

2. It's retail therapy. There's no therapy if I don't obtain retail. I have to do this to keep my sanity lol. Research shows that shopping is a great way to burn calories; all the more reason to buy something to celebrate being healthy and active lol.

1. I'm TALL. Although I love being tall because it adds to my uniqueness, the worst part is that my size goes first. Message to designers... tall women are not a small commodity (pun intended lol) stop making two pair of tall jeans, and two sets of shoes, and giving all the short chicks endless options. We are your biggest cash cow, don't short yourself !

You never know until you KNOW !

First, I just have to say that the power of God amazes me daily; he blesses me with inspiration from so many different perspectives. These motivational pieces just let's me know that I am finally on the right track, doing what I was sent here to do.

Today I finally read a script that a friend, whom I've known since 6th grade, sent me Monday. I'd been putting it off, consumed with work and my own things, but each day he was on me to read it lol. So I finally did...and it was amazing ! He wrote a play about bullying, mind you, prior to this I didn't even know he could write. The message was so impactful and inspiring and I was so impressed. It's crazy how you can know someone for so long but not really know them.

Since I have taken my leap of faith and started my trek on this journey of living and breathing being a writer, things are naturally falling into place. Writing daily is so natural and therapeutic for me; I am fulfilled doing something I love for free, so once I get my big break, the money will just be an added incentive. I may have never read my friend's play had I not stopped running from my dream, because of fear of failure. People are gradually gravitating towards my work, and I am inspiring people to do things they've put off for years. This is why I am doing this, to reach people and show them that anything is possible.

Don't put things off until tomorrow, it may never come. Make the most of each day, lay your foundation and build your empire. Don't let negativity deter you from your goals, let it motivate you and drive you to go even harder to complete that goal. Don't shut people out, you never know who you may need in the future, or why that person was brought into your life.You truly never know until you KNOW !

"Can't should never be in a man's vocabulary, cause' when you say can't you ain't a man"

                      - Quote from my favorite movie Love & Basketball

This quote is not only true for men but everyone, never allow your fear to sustain you from becoming great !

I wanna be...

I wanna be like the rain with no regard to any one's day
I wanna be fearless and triumphant in every way

I wanna impact the world one section at a time
I wanna run without pause to what I know is mine

I wanna complete my mission and be all I can be
I wanna reach the masses and travel the sea



I wanna inspire and uplift every second I get
I wanna show through my actions without saying it

I wanna exist and make an impactful imprint in this life
I wanna be pure and free from malice or strife

I wanna elevate from professional and personal growth
I wanna gravitate towards my destiny oblivious to loath

- CM

Live in the moment

I had an epiphany today and it was a message that only God could send. I couldn't do anything but laugh because he always shakes me back to reality in some form. The message I received today was to live in the moment, enjoy life and the people I'm blessed to share it with.

I'm the type of person that likes to plan things and I expect things to happen in a particular order (career, marriage,world exploration, baby, happily ever after). If only life would obey me...lol. I like structure and I like to know what's to come (which is why I would like a 5 minute glimpse into my future lol). Although I do enjoy the spontaneity of life, security is the most important thing to me.

 I've had several instances these past few months when God showed me he was in control, although he allowed  me to temporarily believe I was lol. The jobs I acquired after graduation were the most prominent examples. I obtained and quit three jobs over the span of six months oblivious to the reasons why they didn't work out. They didn't work out because they weren't for me; I was running from my destiny and applying for safe jobs, and God gave them to me to show me they weren't for me. It took a long time, but I'm finally on the path I should be. Anyone who doesn't think God has a sense of humor do not know my life lol. I love that he allows me to make mistakes to grow but continues to support and guide me along the way.

Presently there are instances in my personal and professional life that are altering my viewpoint and outlook. God told me to live in the moment... not just live but be ALIVE ! He wants me to experience my hearts desire, and live without fear. Today I will embrace the pure essence of now, live in it and enjoy it. Whatever the future may hold, I am ready for the ride because I know God is always by my side.
 

I know I may have come off as too "preachy" or "Godly" in this post, but I thought this message would help someone. No matter what religion you believe in, there is one common denominator... the higher power is the ruler and creator of all things. I encourage you to sit in silence and allow the messages to be received. We are often so caught up in technology and the minute material things in the world, that we forget what's most important. Be still and listen...it will change your life !

 " He's always looking out for me and I enjoy the comfort of that security "- CM

Let today's seed be the plant of your future

This is a quote I say often for motivation. I believe in speaking things into fruition. There is nothing in life that is unattainable unless I deter myself.

Start your day off positive and optimistic even if the odds are against you; There's one thing that the devil and unhappy people hate to see... Someone happy and finding the positive in any negative.

So maybe your boss is getting on your nerves, school is too overwhelming, you hate your job, the balancing act of being a parent and a professional is stressful... never give up ! Find one positive and think of a plan to change the things you don't like.

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

- Albert Einstein

Plant your seeds today and watch them grow over time; your future will only be as bright as you allow it to be, don't sell yourself short ! You were sent here to complete a task, give it your all and watch how God will bless you in abundance. Today is your day, it's never too late to be great !

5 reasons...

Why I suck at Dating

5. I have to DTR. I know y'all, guys especially, are thinking... is she crazy? it's dating ! No, I'm not crazy lol but if we're dating for a while, we have to define the relationship. I can't date you without knowing where it's going, we won't be friends with benefits, or non-titled, sorry I have to know.

4. I'm not gonna be a number. Yes once again it's dating, but I'm not gonna be a number in your starting line-up. When I date and really like someone I focus on that one person; That's how guys get caught up because they are too intertwined with so many girls. Pick one, focus, make the effort.

3. I'm not gonna beg for attention. I'm the type of girl that will make the effort if it's reciprocated, but if I feel like you're not putting in as much as I am, don't expect to hear from me. Don't pay attention to me, expect a "who is this" text the next time you decide to hit me up, I don't have time for the games.

2. I'm not coming to your house to chill. In this unfortunate generation, guys don't believe in dating, instead they think it's acceptable to invite you over to "chill", and we all know chilling ain't really chilling...no thank you sir, we are strangers. I'm old fashioned, take me out on a date, show me chivalry isn't dead, be a gentleman, it goes far in my book.

1. I'm not having sex with you on the 1st date. Moment of silence...

Contrary to popular belief there are still respectable women in this world that have morals and values, and I happen to be the ring leader lol. There's no bigger deal breaker than an amazing date followed by a guy expecting to see your goodies after... it's happened to me before and let's just say, we never spoke again lol.

PSA  to Men: TREAT A WOMAN THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR MOTHER TO BE TREATED !

PSA to Women: SET THE STANDARD AND KNOW YOUR WORTH, MAKE HIM EARN YOU !

Or like Andre 3k said: 

"It's sad, but one day our kids will have to visit museums, to see what a lady looks like"