5 Reasons...

Not To Sell Yourself Short

Yes YOU. You hidin'. You runnin'. You settling. Stop creating problems for yourself that will only stifle your growth. This process through life should be filled with knowledge and affirmations daily, if you aren't receiving that... you're living wrong, at least in Jesus' eyes.

You see, he wants us to live lavish lives but only if we really want it. We've gotta walk with him every step of the way, listen and be obedient. This isn't the only way to receive blessings (because he will cover the oblivious, lost and blind), but it's definitely the right path to travel. He will never lead you astray, remember that.


5. You've Got Talent. Your talents are just that, YOURS. It's up to you to decide whether or not you want to use them or lose them; Don't let them slip away. Ultimately you have two choices: 1. Use them and live in paradise or 2. Avoid them and live poor (in every aspect: mentally, physically, and emotionally).

4. You Owe It To Yourself. Everyone has a special discernment as to what it is they're destined to do. Listen to it, hone in on it, and never let it go. Go after your destiny and you'll be rewarded daily for shinning the way God intended.

3. You Is Kind. You Is Smart. You Is Important. Lol yes I took it there, but I had to. When it comes to Jesus you are The Help, when you're appointed you've gotta show up and show out for Him as he did for you when he died on the cross. And don't you ever forget it !

2. You Are Worthy. And worth more than your most wildest dreams. You deserve to have genuine peace and prosperity. You are worthy of all the things you desire, just believe.

1. Jesus Loves You. Unconditionally for eternity, now who loves like that? And if you said a parent, mate, friend or acquaintance, where do you think they got it from?

Forgive Before It Kills You

Although it may not seem like it at the time, holding grudges is the equivalent of a tumor or cancer. Harping on what somebody did to you will only hurt you. Address it directly with the person, release it, and let it go. It's not worth your health, and definitely not your life. You deserve to be at peace, take the first step.

I can tell you this because I know 1st hand how detrimental not forgiving can be. No matter what somebody did to you, no matter how much they betrayed you, forgive them. It may take a year or if you're like me years, but it's gotta be done. Don't be afraid, this will only help you heal and move on.

If you don't it'll start coming out in almost everything you do. For me I was depressed, isolated myself from almost everybody, and began to gain a lot of weight by taking to food as comfort instead of talking to someone about my problems. Take it from me, if you can avoid all of these negative side effects, make a genuine effort to do so.

You owe it to yourself to forgive, it's often misconstrued that if you forgive wrongdoing you're essentially telling the person what they did is okay; this couldn't be more false. When you forgive it's solely for you. It's so you won't carry the burden and dead weight of your problems, and so you can free yourself.

Believe that you are worthy of peace and seek it. Confront whoever offended, abused or mistreated you. Be confident, let them know how you feel, and move on. Don't accumulate years of stress, mistrust and worrying because of one person, I know it's easier said than done, but the best revenge is success. You don't have to prove anything, just dedicate each day towards the betterment of your life, and you'll be just fine.

It Ain't For EVERYBODY 2.0 !

I used to say: Why can't everyone get blessings at the same time? in all aspects of life: love and relationships, careers, revenue etc. But what I didn't realize is that it ain't for everybody !

Everybody ain't went through what you went through to get where you at. Everybody ain't sacrificed what you have. Everybody ain't went in, and created a brand like you have, so why should they reap the benefits? Of course they will if you're generous, but everyone's gotta grind hard for the blessings to keep coming down for them.

The only people that get blessed without work are babies and old people. Babies because they are pure and innocent and inevitably oblivious, and old folks because they've already put in the work (if they're working for God).

Stop being meek about your success and be proud of all you've accomplished. It could change someones life by motivating them to get their ish together. Your life is a reflection of God, make him proud !

Being Money Hungry Won't Get You Any Closer To Your Dreams

I've seen too many people have this big dreams (yes they are attainable if you're willing to work and sacrifice for it) yet no real drive to dedicate themselves to it wholeheartedly. It's like working part time expecting full time pay and benefits. Sorry to break it to ya, but...

You've gotta wanna reach that dream/dreams like it's your only option. Yeah you have other talents that can bring in revenue, but focus... really focus on what you want your future to look like. Do you want to be struggling and unhappy at a sucky job, or do you want to live life abundantly with a career that doesn't feel like work at all? I don't know about you but I'm choosin' option #2 right now, in my sleep, 12 years from now, and forever ! lol

Everything starts and ends with you. You've got the power to determine who you want to be in your life, how they enrich your life, and whether or not they are toxic. The tongue is powerful, it took me a while to come to know this simple fact, but it's amazing how you can speak things into fruition. That's why it's imperative that you always find positivity in every situation, good. bad. ugly or indifferent.

Make today the day you decide to spoil yourself by diving into your craft head first ! Throw away those inhibitions and run towards your destiny with everything you've got. The money will come, just be ready to laugh to the bank when it starts rollin' in.

Happy Monday Ryders, if you're having a "Case of the Monday's" make it the best one yet ! : )

Gettin' To God

Within the past two weeks my entire life has changed tremendously ! I've had quite a few trials and tribulations, but the constant in it all was God. You can't go through what I went through about not have faith and a desire to walk with God for eternity. He's the only one that could see me through all of my experiences. And I say experiences but there's no such thing as a failed anything if you learned something from it.

And learn I did, now I'm eager and ready for more. There's nothing like being on fire for God, and declaring that unconditional love the way he does every second and every minute of each day. My life has been no Picasso or Van Gogh, but it's enriched with lessons in life that have molded me into the person I am today.

In church yesterday, might I add I gave my life to Christ, found a church home and will be getting baptized in two weeks ! Hallelujah ! Okay back to the word at hand lol, as I was saying... in church yesterday the Pastor said something that resonated deep in my spirit: God uses season's to develop us in addition to There is a time for every purpose.

Today I challenge you to have a talk with God, no matter how brief or extended, large or minute he will listen and answer every prayer. Be it prayer in silence, tears, happiness, verbally, physically or moments of confusion and frustration. Talk with him and watch your life change forever. Eventually we all come to walk with Jesus, so if not today, get ready because it's inevitable BABY BAY-BEH... UH ! lol

5 reasons...

These 2 Apps Saved My Life

Walkmeter  

                                                                         My Fitness Pal

5. Results Driven. If you can stay within your caloric goals (and it's fine if you go over at times, let's face it, that's life) and walk for at least 15-20 minutes a day, you will see results. Add some cardio like a Zumba class or the elliptical and watch those pounds melt away ! Go ahead, you've got haters to make jealous ! ; )

4. Empowering. If you're anything like me, your confidence will go through the roof before, during and after the process. It's a journey towards the healthy life you want to live, and you should enjoy every asap of your transition. Don't take it for granted, if you're watchful you'll only be the weight you despise for temporary.

3. Motivating. Once you start to see the positive results of eating healthy and exercising you will want to continue the path you're on. There's nothin' like steppin' on the scale and seeing those numbers diminish each week.

2. Simple. Both apps are easy to figure, and when I say easy I mean E-ZAY ! lol Bottom line, if my Mom can maneuver throughout both apps without a problem, ANYBODY can ! lol

1. Free. My Fitness Pal is like Weight Watchers but free, and who doesn't like free? I know I do ! lol And the Walkmeter does all the work for you, calculates your mileage amongst other things with the push of a button.

Hell No, Heaven Yes !

What do you want your legacy to be? What are you doing at this very moment to make it possible? What will people have to say about you at your funeral... or more importantly, to your face?

You've gotta start living the life you've always envisioned now. There is nothing stopping you but you. Take a risk and give it all you've got ! God is watching and ready to see you flourish the way you are destined to.

Heaven is inevitable, Hell is optional. EVERYONE, even demons, are welcomed in Heaven, but Hell has a gate, at which you enter at your own discretion. And why would you want to do that?

Start mapping out your future now, you've got nothing but time and opportunity, and that dream isn't going anywhere. It's gonna keep nudging at you until you go for it, might as well start today !

Make a vision board, write out your dreams and aspirations. Find different/interesting things to experience and see if it inspires you. This life is yours for the taking, make the most out of it, and when I say the most... I mean the UTMOST !

Until tomorrow my loves, stay blessed and prosperous.

Yours Always,
Candis

5 reasons...

If at 1st you don't succeed... pick yourself up & THRIFT again !

*** Here are my finds at my local Salvation Army. Both are brand new, the fuchsia is Banana Republic and  the other is just vintage awesomeness. Got both for a whopping $8 plus tax, can't beat that !

5. Hidden Treasures. If you are like I was previously, then you could have potentially missed out on so many great finds already. Don't let one bad thrift store/experience stop you from trying, it's worth it trust me !

4. Variety. I'm a huge fan of all things unusual and unorthodox, and Thrifting seems to match my being quite precisely. You can find countless vintage pieces from all eras, that are gonna inevitably come back in style sooner or later. But don't fret, there's a lil somethin in there for you plane Jane's as well (no shade) lol.

3. High Fashion. Not always, but if you're lucky you could stumble upon a designer Burberry bag for $10 or less if it's the discounted color; but before you go running to the register check the inside and make sure it's authentic, they almost caught me slippin mayne ! Lol

2. Deals. On top of the already dirt cheap prices on new or gently used products, there are certain colors on specific days that can save you some serious change. Just recently found out Wednesdays are half off all clothing, they done messed up nah ! lol

1. Steals. As you can see above, Thrifting is essentially the #hotspot to get more bang for your buck. I've never stepped foot in a Banana Republic, but I know for a fact that handbag wasn't anywhere near the $4 I paid; And the black bag is in such good shape, not to mention high quality leather. Overall my 2nd experience trumped my 1st, and with the quality of what I paid, I'd suggest you jump on board ! lol

Have a wonderfully safe weekend Ryders, missed you much ! : )

Brief Intermission

Hi Ryders,

Just wanted to write you to let you know I will be taking a brief break from blogging, only for this week. I currently have a ruptured eardrum due to a beach trip last weekend, and need to take care of that matter amongst other things. I can say I have felt quite incomplete not being able to connect with you guys, but I'll be back refreshed and equipped with plenty ammo Monday (08/11/14) ! Until then loves... stay safe, blessed and prosperous !

Yours Always,

Candis