5 reasons...

To Carpe Diem 

(Seize the Day)

5. Days are Temporary.Once the day is over it's gone forever, and you can never get it back. Sure you have to be responsible and work to provide for yourself, but your spare time should be spent wisely; And what's wiser than being happy? Nothing ! lol Plan a trip if you have to, but once you get there blow caution to the wind and have a damn good time. Everyone deserves to be free of everyday burdens and stress, take a little time out of each day to relax and unwind in you own special way.

4. The Thrill. There's nothing like the high (yes natural lol) you get from an adventure. And I don't know if it's just me, but it seems as though the thrill is amplified when it's unexpected. Go out and do something you've never done, what's the worst that could happen? If it blows you'll have story to tell, but if it's mind-blowing you've have an even better story.

3. The Spontaneity. When you go against the grain and choose not to plan something, the window of opportunity is ginormous ! Not to mention, you never know who you'll meet. Some of my most prized memories arose from unpredictable instances. Life is already scheduled enough with long crappy work hours, meetings, and other annoyances, get off the clock and make your own rules for once !

2. Life is Uncertain. Tomorrow is not promised, and since we all know that, it should be more of an incentive to live each day like it's our last. I'm not talking about ruthless Project X parties and careless fun, more so fulfilling things that not only enriches your life, but others as well.

1. Only 1 Shot. You only have one life to live, actually LIVE and do things that make you feel alive. You don't want to look up 30 years later only to have a life of "shoulda coulda woulda's". Do it now, and live to talk about it tomorrow !

In God's Game of Tag You're Always IT!

 

Ever felt like you were in a game of tag and no one made you 'it'? In the game it's a good thing not to be it, but in life not so much lol. And although it may not seem like it at this very moment you are it and God hasn't forgotten to tag you... He's just waiting for the perfect moment.

Periodically I go through these spells of what I call self pity. I don't down talk or depress myself, but I do question when it'll be my turn. It never fails that when it appears someone else is raining with blessings, yours seem to be that much smaller. I am appreciative for all that I have accomplished, but with so much ground to cover, what I've done this far seems so minute.

This is a prime example of why social media is the devil. If you're like me, it's hard not to compare your life to your peers. And although everything isn't as it seems, some things are as vividly accurate as a snapshot. For some reason it's easier to gloat on the things we don't have than to appreciate what we do... call it humanism. 

No matter how long it takes for you to acquire what you've been longing for, remember that through it all you are IT ! You are enough. You are worthy. You are deserving of all the things you desire. Keep your faith strong and your confidence stronger, your time is near my dear... you'd better get ready for the good life !

Support Systems Don't Always Include Family

When you start doing something you love, I mean really enjoying it, you'll be surprised at the number of people that genuinely support you. A natural assumption would be that family would be your number one cheerleaders right? Wrong ! But it's not the end of the world... take a walk with me.

It can be a hard pill to swallow when the people that matter the most in your life don't support your passion. Even if they don't like it and it bores them to no end, support is expected..but not everyone sees your vision. Some may think it's pointless, some may support, while others will remain indifferent.Whatever the case may be for you, don't give up.

You will be stunned by the amount of love and support you receive from complete strangers. It's crazy to think someone you don't even know believes in you, but it's true... all of my Ryder's are a testament of that. There has actually been more outside support than from family, and I'm completely fine with that. I can't say that I was initially, given that I support everyone, but what can you do? Your best, nothing more nothing less.

Whomever your support system consists of, never take them for granted. God allots you a select few that understand what you are trying to accomplish, the rest of the world has to catch up in due time. Be patient with the non-believers, trust me they will come around. Don't feel the need to prove anything, just do you and everything else will fall through.

Just Like Mouth's, Close Minds Don't Get Fed Either

The mind is the most power element of the body, it's like the motherboard on a computer, it controls everything. It's crazy when you think of things that happen naturally like blinking, breathing, knowing when you're sleepy, hungry, happy etc. The common denominator in all things in regards to the human body is directly correlated to the mind.

Now think of a mind that limits itself of knowledge, which in turn restricts them from an essential key to life, growth.That's why you'll see a lot of older people that behave like children, I say this all the time: Maturity is not defined by age. This is especially true for drug abusers, it is said that their mentality stays at the age they were when they started using. So take for instance my dad, he's been using since before I was born and I'm 25, so easily he has the mind frame of a teenager, or less if you ask me lol.

We're told as kids A mind is a terrible thing to waste, and know nothing of the meaning until we're tapping at 30's door. You have no real value on life or appreciation for it until then anyway. But what's also funny and interesting at the same time is all of the things you remember, like your brain is a person library, how crazy is that?! Don't waste the beautiful gift you were given at birth, open your mind so that opportunities will follow.

It's convenient to be quite, stubborn and strong willed, but I can tell you this... it won't get you far. If you want anything out of this life you have to go for it with confidence and a sense of entitlement. State your claim and don't stop until you get it. There's too much to offer, too much to attain, and too much to experience to let fear block your pathway to success. Read, Explore and Conquer the world, that's what it's made for. Enrich yourself with things that make you a better person. Feed you mind and your soul will live forever.

It's Never Too Late To Cut The Dead Weight

Dead weight could be a plethora of things: bad energy, negative people, clothes, hair, a job you hate, a failing relationship etc. Don't think of it as a bad thing, in most cases it's actually more beneficial; think of how brittle and weak your hair is when you're hanging on to split ends amongst other things. Sometimes letting go is essential for your growth.

Whatever is hindering you today, doesn't have to be present tomorrow. Rid yourself of all things that don't enrich your life some way or another. That happy and healthier life you wish to attain or maintain won't exist if you don't eliminate the baggage. And don't be afraid to let go, there's always something better in route that will appear when you least expect it.

 

 Cutting the dead weight is essentially taking a leap of faith. It is the belief that you will grow when all ties that hold you back are cut loose. Don't be afraid to grow, even if that means outgrowing people that you care about, it's one of life's hardest inevitables.

Make it a priority to put the betterment of your well being first. Stop sacrificing happiness so that others can be, you deserve it just as much as they do. If you aren't happy with your current circumstances, work towards changing them daily; each inch of a step is close to your goal than you think. As you transition through life remember one thing, there are many paths to choose but only one is destined for you; never question or second guess it, you are where you are supposed to be at this very moment... nothing is in vain.

Some People Are So Miserable Even The Sun Irritates Them

It's crazy but some people are so unhappy they want everyone around them to feel it. I've got several names for those types (although it's not limited to women): Annoying Amy, Berating Brenda, Complaining Carly, Depressing Debra,Debbie Downer, Negative Nancy; the list goes on, but I think you get the point lol.

Miserable people always want an audience, and it's up to you whether you decide to join, ignore, or eliminate them. That old saying: 'Misery loves company' couldn't be more factual, because without  the attention there's not much to say. Don't fuel their negativity, there's already enough in the world.

Pessimists always have a negative approach to life, being that in their eyes, the glass is always halfway empty. There is no optimism, no hope, and definitely no faith. To me, people like that are walking devils, always finding/creating the bad in everything. Rid them of your life, they are stealing your happiness.

Listening to a pessimistic person gripe and complain is like feeding a lion, they will never be full. I see it all the time on social networks; when people don't comment or like a negative statement or remark the person deletes it, but when people join in by trying to remedy the situation or agreeing, they keep it going. Being around a miserable person can be so draining. I equate it to nonstop gloomy rainy days, even if the sun is out you can't really appreciate it because of the dark cloud around you. That's why it's best to rid yourself of any negativity, for the betterment of your life. Do it, and watch how quickly everything will positively change.

Never Question What's Meant To Be

In the hands of God nothing is in vain. Everything has a purpose and is for a reason. And in knowing that, people still question him daily? You can't question the inevitable.

Have you ever just sat down and thought about your life? Like really take a tour through your memory's museum? Despite all of the hardships, setbacks, and misfortunes you're still here. And in the mist of the bad good has shown through consistently right? The mere fact that you're still alive is with purpose.

Although it may not seem like it at the time, God will never give you more than you can handle. He gives his greatest battle to his strongest soldiers, and when you survive (and you will), there lies your testimony. Be grateful that he chose you.

Life gives us the gift of a story. And what makes a good story? Depth, Suspense, Hardships, Love and Sacrifice. What good is a story without all of these elements? Fictional if you as me lol. So the next time you're complaining and asking 'why me', remember that instance is only a paragraph of your novel, you've got plenty of room to fill those pages.